{"id":278,"date":"2020-03-07T08:57:55","date_gmt":"2020-03-07T13:57:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/marshasummers.com\/wordpress\/?p=278"},"modified":"2020-03-07T08:57:55","modified_gmt":"2020-03-07T13:57:55","slug":"where-is-happy-and-happiness-idea","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marshasummers.com\/wordpress\/?p=278","title":{"rendered":"Where is Happy and Happiness Idea"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

From Santa Ana – March 31, 1979<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

[From Marsha:\u00a0 Four women I know when asked what makes them happy said shopping.\u00a0 The income from being a local musician never afforded me that luxury, so I had to look elsewhere to define what happy was to me.\u00a0\u00a0 In transcribing the above tape, my teacher talked about how we are conditioned from birth to want nondisturbance and the way to get it is the six methods from the \u201dpicture of man\u201d he created to help us to see \u201cself\u201d.\u00a0 So if you\u2019re not familiar with those, please go to the \u2018basic\u2019 section of the website and check it out.\u201d]<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

[From the tape of 3\/31\/79 Dr. Bob]<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now all of these families of not I\u2019s in the picture of man come\nalong as ideal methods to obtain what I want.  (those being complainer, sticker up for\nrights, pleaser, quoter of authorities, self improver and blamer).   I want this; but of course, we aren\u2019t  recognizing it consciously, we didn\u2019t say we\nwanted a certain amount \u2013 we want it all, huh, all of it.  (he\u2019s talking about the four dual basic\nurges)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And we didn\u2019t wanna pay anything for it \u2013 I\u2019m entitled to\nit.  You\u2019re just supposed to always\napprove of me with no effort on my part. \nAnd you\u2019re supposed to always give me attention; and I\u2019m supposed to\nalways be comfortable and if I\u2019m not, where\u2019s the pill, right quick, because I\nshouldn\u2019t have to adapt.   (Adapt is\ntalking about illness.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now when humans begen to see that they are –what they have\nheard the word \u201chappy\u201d.  Most of you have\nheard that word haven\u2019t you?  Do you know\nwhat it means?  You haven\u2019t the foggiest\nexcept that you don\u2019t have it all the time. When is the time you think about\nyou don\u2019t have it? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But if you ever think about the word \u201chappy\u201d, you don\u2019t\nquite have it.  You would be happy if you\nhad thus and so, is that right?   Or if\nyou could do such and such.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

[From Marsha\u2026I have observed that most people think happiness lies \u201cout there\u201d somewhere.\u00a0 So I want to \u201cget\u201d happiness from \u201cit\u201d or \u201cthem\u201d.\u00a0 So I\u2019m proposing an experiment or exercise, perhaps one could take this day and observe and make a list of how many times I felt happy and \u201cwhat I was doing at the time\u201d. \u00a0\u00a0I have discovered , for me, that the happiness is in the \u2018doing\u2019 not necessarily in the \u2018getting\u2019.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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