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Excerpt From Half Moon Bay – Disk 2<\/strong><\/p>\n

(So how much attention or approval \u2013 how much of that do we need? How little……)<\/p>\n

How much attention and approval do you need? Well, why don’t you give yourself for what you require?\u00a0 You know, I figure nobody knows how wonderful I am as much as I do.\u00a0 I know people that disapprove of me just got poor taste and I’m goin’ about my business.\u00a0 Do you know how much you would need to give yourself?\u00a0 You see in the ultimate end, it’s your own approval you desire, not mine.\u00a0 I can come along and tell you how beautiful you are and how wonderful you are and you’ll say he was just doin’ this to try to make me feel good.\u00a0 Or he was makin’ fun of me.\u00a0 So it’s your approval, your image of yourself that counts.\u00a0 So can you give yourself enough approval or do you want some of the rest of us to give it?\u00a0 You’ll never believe the rest of us anyway, is that right?\u00a0 But we’ve been taught that we should always put ourselves down.\u00a0 But if you put yourself down, who’s gonna put you up, is that right?\u00a0 Or you wouldn’t believe ’em anyway, would you?\u00a0 Hmm?<\/p>\n

(No.)<\/p>\n

(8:07 CD 2 Half Moon Bay)<\/p>\n

You’ve been told how beautiful you were ever since you was this high, is that right, or before?<\/p>\n

(This high.)<\/p>\n

You’ve been told that all of your life, haven’t you?<\/p>\n

(Well, about……….)<\/p>\n

Well most<\/em> of your life, is that right?\u00a0 That you’re a beautiful lady.\u00a0 Do you buy it or do you think you’re a ……<\/p>\n

(I think they’re lying.)<\/p>\n

Right. So the only approval and attention that really matters is what you give yourself.\u00a0 Now let’s all get that straight.\u00a0 Now that don’t mean you’re conceited or anything of the sort.\u00a0 My mother said there was no conceit in our family, I had it all; but that’s beside the point.\u00a0 The point is if you can’t approve of yourself, you won’t buy it if somebody else does.\u00a0 I’ve watched you for a long time, too. \u00a0You give you all the attention, all the approval you want and you “grrrr” because you don’t give yourself the attention and approval.\u00a0 You give yourself the “put down”.<\/p>\n

(Yeah.)<\/p>\n

Yeah. And you give yourself the put down, is that right?\u00a0 And so’s about everybody else here.\u00a0 Now we all give ourselves a put down, is that right?\u00a0 Huh?\u00a0 The only attention and approval in the ultimate end that matters is what you give yourself, ok?\u00a0 And that doesn’t mean that you have to run and tell everybody how wonderful you are, but just so you know it, ok?\u00a0 You don’t have to tell anybody about it, just so you know it.\u00a0 Then you got plenty of attention.\u00a0 If you need a little more today, give yourself a little more, right?\u00a0 Ok?\u00a0 Next comment.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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